Friday, January 29, 2016

Sleeping In


My Dad always told me that I was Sleeping Beauty because I was so beautiful when I was asleep, and then...I would wake up and be grumpy.  Yea, that's my Dad's sense of humor.  But I know it is somewhat based on truth because I am not a morning person and love to stay in bed.  

The older I get, the less I am able to sleep in because of the responsibilities that come with being an adult: work, kids, obligations,etc.  I remember the day when I could sleep in until 10 on Saturday.  Brad would tease me (he never slept in), but seriously, when you wake up early every other day, you have to have ONE day to sleep in.

As you can imagine, Tacy really ended sleeping in period.  Babies are great, but they are horrible sleepers.  As Tacy has gotten older, she started to sleep more, but she still needed help in the morning to change a diaper, go potty, eat food, play, etc.  When Brad took down Tacy's crib and she started sleeping in a toddler bed, I was not very happy because she would wake up so early because she could get out of bed now and not have to be rescued.  Then there was potty training which brought the joys of bed-wetting.  We finally hit a great spot where Tacy slept 12 hours (7-7) with Tacy waking up and coming into our room to tell me that the sun was up so it was time to get up, or that she was hungry, needed to go potty and so on.  She was always very sweet (Tacy is a morning person) and I could even tell her to give me a few more minutes and she would leave me alone and come back in 10 minutes.  Not too bad, she was basically an alarm with a snooze.  

Brad's rotations have thrown a kink into Tacy's sleep however.  Because he has had to wake up early to make it to some rotations, Tacy hears him and wakes up (5:30 on she is a light sleeper, this is why I shower at night a lot because she sleeps through it then).  Her waking up early, meant that I would then get woken up early.  Brad tries to get her to go back to sleep by putting her back in bed and turning off the light, which causes her to cry and usually 15 minutes later, after Brad has left the house, Tacy is up again.  Oh well.

But within the past few weeks, Tacy no longer wakes me up as soon as she is up.  She will go potty on her own (I try not to think about whether she washes her hands or not), play quietly in her room, and now she even will go downstairs and get herself food.  This is wonderful!!!!  I can always sleep until my actual alarm, or sleep in until 8 on Saturdays.  Seriously, she helps to make me a happy momma.  Granted, Tacy fending for herself has caused some problems.  

While I'm sleeping, Tacy has gotten into Christmas candy and all of the candy cane kisses out of everyone's stockings (Brad found all the wrappers and asked her about it, but she denied it).  Tacy has started to use her stool around the kitchen to get anything she can that is up high.  For a while, just the fruit fell victim to the stool, and I can't really complain that my child would wake up and eat fruit (although finding bananas or apples in the trash that only had one bite eaten from them is not fun and we had a talk about this).  However, one Saturday Tacy somehow used her stool to help her be tall enough to get ice cream and her shake out of the freezer.  She then scooped ice cream into a bowl with the ice cream scoop, but the ice cream and still very frozen shake into the fridge, and took her bowl of ice cream up to her room to eat.  I was really impressed with her formal ice cream eating and that she used the ice cream scoop (I forget we have one and usually just use a spoon).  The now melted ice cream in the fridge was just funny and we had a talk about how ice cream was not something she could eat without Mommy and Daddy saying it was ok.  

Other than food, her toys that have been placed in hard to reach areas of the cupboard, are now things she can get to.  The same saturday as the ice cream, I woke up to Tacy asking me if she could blow bubbles while holding an open bubble jar in her hand.  She has also gotten out her kinetic sand toy that essentially is playdough that can float on water, that has molds and a little beach that you can fill with water.  When I woke up I found all the colors of kinetic sand were now mixed together and water was on the table.  So we had a talk about what toys she can only play with when Mom and Dad are around to supervise, and luckily bubbles and playdough have not been a problem since.

I really can't complain about the extra sleep I get now.  Granted, I would prefer if Tacy slept past 6 so that she wasn't so grumpy by 5.  Oh well, you win some you lose some.

It's hard to complain when I wake up to a happy toddler who has dressed herself, which simplifies my morning.  

Now I just need to hide her Elsa dress so that we can stop fighting about how she needs to wear clothes under the dress because it is too cold to just wear the dress outside.  

Friday, January 8, 2016

Hello Utah!


We were able to fly out to visit Brad's family in the early part of December.  While the flying was a bit of a pain, we are really glad we went and could see so much of our family and catch up with some friends.  Here is a brief account of our trip.
running to Mema at the airport
Thursday: We flew in and drove down to Utah County.  We went to my favorite Mexican resturaunt, Joe Bandidos in Springville, UT.  Seriously, ALL of their food is delicious and they have the BEST chips and salsa!  After all the bland mexican in NC, it was nice to have some great flavor.  We then drove around the Payson, UT temple which was beautiful.  Then we met up with Brad's sisters and our nephews and niece and went to some of BYU's free museums - The Bean Museum and the Palentology Museum.  Our nephew Grant is only 5 months older than Tacy, and previous to moving, they were always together and best friends.  It was so fun to see them together again because they picked up like we had never left.

Friday: Brad went to lunch with some of his old co-workers while Tacy and I went to lunch with my friends, Andy and Brittany, and there 3 kids.  It was so fun to catch up and let the kids run around.  We also visited with (Sister) McKenzie Loftis, one of the missionaries we had over all the time in NC who happens to be from Bountiful, UT.  Friday night we went with Brad's parents to their ward Christmas party and Tacy was up way to late playing/watching shows with Grant for their "slumber" party.
Dayton, Tacy, and Bentley at Chick-fil-A
Saturday: Tacy was a grump due to lack of sleep.  We had family pictures at the state capitol.  Tacy was in time out almost the whole time because she would not listen, which put Brad in a poor mood.  As I am the only one (of the 3 of us) who like taking family pictures, I guess it was fitting I was the only happy one.  I really did think to just tell the photographer and Brad's mom, to just take pictures of me for our family.  Amazingly we did actually get some good pictures with everyone smiling (or not looking too grumpy).  I learned that goldfish are the key, because fruit snacks were not working for Tacy.  After pictures we went to lunch at Chuck-a-rama for Grandpa Taylor.  It was so great to see Brad's grandparents, Aunt Janet and Uncle Lynn, and Aunt Lori.  Tacy even warmed up to everyone and hugged Grandma Taylor.  Food helped her to become happy again.

Sunday: We went to church with Brad's parents. Tacy and I took a nap.  We had a family dinner with all of Brad's siblings, spouses, and kids.  After dinner the grandkids all opened a present from Grandma - jammies!  We also decorated sugar cookies (under Melissa's direction and tutelage because she makes and decorates cookies professionally).  Then we all played games.

Monday - It had DUMPED snow over night (a good 12 inches) and was still snowing Monday morning.  Tacy was estatic because she had been asking since flying into Utah to drive up to the mountains to get snow.  We went to breakfast at Grandma Annie's for delicious scones and sausage.  We met up with our Canadian friends, Kody and Connie and their brood of kids, for lunch.  We bought Tacy snow boots and she and Brad played outside in the backyard making a snowman and snow angels.  That night we then went to Temple Square in Downtown SLC with Brad's parents.  I love seeing the lights and because it was snowing, it was not crowded at all!  Tacy loved it and we bundled up good.  We ate dinner at Kneaders in City Center before driving back home.
"skating" while Daddy shoveled the driveway

Tuesday - We went to boondocks with Brad's mom, Jody, Grant and McKay.  Tacy also went and played at Grants with Grandma.  We finished off the night with In-n-out.

We had a busy trip loaded with lots of food and activities.  We had a great time and enjoyed Christmas weather before coming home to the 70s.


 







goofy and grumpy

This picture makes me laugh!